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<![CDATA[MOUTH TO HAND LEARNING CENTER - Not Otherwise Defined]]>Wed, 13 May 2026 21:26:29 -0400Weebly<![CDATA[Accomplishments]]>Mon, 11 May 2026 19:26:37 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/accomplishmentsI am into almost all subjects, but don’t have opportunities to study many. For example, I’d like to learn math. I know some stuff, like long division. I know addition, subtraction, and multiplication. I know fractions some, and decimals. Some guys here are doing calculus, and I want that to be me. Also, I want to learn chemistry. And I want to go to college.

My friend, Luke, wrote a blog post this morning, and it was opened on Judy’s computer when I walked into her office. It was about how pissed he is not being able to go to college. Maybe that is how I feel too.

All of us are really smart. And we are capable of brilliance. It is interesting that Luke is feeling what I feel. I want to take the high school equivalency exam. I want to go to college. I want to feel proud of myself in spite of this stupid body.

It’s important to me.

]]><![CDATA[Groundhog’s Day]]>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 21:38:31 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/groundhogs-dayI am totally lucky. You might be surprised to hear a nonspeaker say that, but it’s true. The fact that I just got back from a long cruise to the Caribbean has inspired this post. It absolutely was the best vacation ever. It was warm and beautiful. The highlight was our trip on a submarine. I thought that was pretty much the coolest thing ever. I was surprised that I was not nervous; I thought that I might be, going under water like that. Instead, I was just excited.

The thing is, I can do things now, with no fear of meltdowns. I have had them on vacations in the past, and it is awful. But I’m lucky: my parents didn’t give up and found a medicine to help me.

So, here I sit in Judy’s office, having just come back from a cruise, having no meltdowns. And the fact that I get to come here is another lucky thing. We live in Framingham, MA. It’s a drive: I am so lucky my parents are willing to make it.
So today I feel really lucky. And Judy announced that Staten Island Chuck, the best groundhog, did not see his shadow. Early spring! Woohoo!

]]><![CDATA[OCD Thoughts]]>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 20:19:01 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/ocd-thoughtsThere are behaviors we have that we cannot control. I walked into Judy’s office today and needed to move one of her boards. I don’t know why I did…but I definitely needed to. I am beset all day with similar moments of need: a sudden urge to do something that must be done, or else. It makes no sense logically. We KNOW it makes no sense…but we must do that thing.

The worst part is the feeling of panic that accompanies the stupid urge. My cognitive brain is thinking, “You don’t have to suffocate yourself with the seatbelt, you idiot!” But I must get it as tight as possible, or else. It’s so tight it hurts…but it’s still not tight enough. I mean, how insane is that?!

I don’t know where these stupid needs come from. They seem to just pop into my head by themselves, and once there, I can’t get them out. I have zero control over them. And that is why everyone shouldn’t yell at me.

I feel stupid enough by myself doing them.

]]><![CDATA[Living History]]>Mon, 16 Jun 2025 19:52:21 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/living-historyDefinitely I am psyched about being in another group with Luke. Judy is starting new groups because there are so many new students.

I believe we are making huge progress in terms of our rights to communicate as we see fit. I can finally see that things are starting to improve for us. More and more nonspeakers are being brought to centers to learn to spell. With more typers out there, we are becoming a force. We are getting heard, more and more.

I am kind of blown away by how different things are than when I started spelling just a few years ago. There were just a few of us in Judy’s basement. Now Mouth to Hand is closing in on 100 students. The world is changing, and I am excited to watch history unfold.

]]><![CDATA[Spelling Tsunami]]>Mon, 02 Jun 2025 22:16:46 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/spelling-tsunamiThe tsunami of spelling for communication is rapidly approaching the shore. I believe that the revolution has not only begun, but we are taking over new territories daily. There are more and more nonspeakers learning to talk everywhere. There are more people who disbelieved in this who are changing their minds all the time.

When I learned to talk on the boards several years ago, there were so few of us. We started in Judy’s basement with like 10 or so of us. Now look at Mouth to Hand! That was only four years ago. Now there are like eighty of us.

I genuinely believe that inside of a few years, spelling will become the norm. I can’t wait.

]]><![CDATA[Food Bonanza]]>Mon, 12 May 2025 20:00:03 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/food-bonanzaYesterday I gave my mother a Mother’s Day gift. I ate a bowl of mac and cheese. I know that may not sound like a gift, but trust me, it is. I probably have the most limited diet of anyone here at Mouth to Hand. I basically ate French fries and chicken fingers. Hallmark Moment: my Mom has been trying for years to get me to try new foods. But lately the OCD has relented enough to allow me to try things.

I am excited to report that I can eat noodles now, and I liked a meatball. I liked a hamburger and I liked different Chinese foods. I am making consistent progress now. Definitely another big step is that I am able to use a fork and spoon. The OCD really didn’t love utensils.

So I may not yet be eating kale salads, as Judy suggested. But who knows? In the future, fresh salads may be on the menu.

]]><![CDATA[I Want to be Cured]]>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 17:21:42 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/i-want-to-be-curedIt is hard when we strongly disagree with our parents. I believe that we should already have better treatments for autism. My parents are extremely left-wing, and are anti-RFK. I strongly disagree though. In fact, I am furious with them over this.

I am incredibly disabled. I can’t speak at all, and I have hellish OCD. Then, to boot, I have episodes of self-injury that I can’t control. My forehead is disfigured from my banging it over and over throughout the years. I do not want to live the rest of my life like this. So when someone in power tells me that he recognizes that autism is an epidemic that needs to be stopped, and treatments need to be found, I am thrilled.

I don’t care what political party he is, because this goes beyond politics. This is only about my suffering, and that of my friends. There needs to be a point at which politics becomes irrelevant. I’ve hit that point - and I can only hope that my parents do too.

[Editor's Note: Not only did Pete's parents permit this to be published; they went out of their way to assure him that they want to hear his voice, even when they disagree with him. And they also assured him that they want a cure as much as he.]

]]><![CDATA[Cool Technology]]>Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:02:43 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/cool-technologyToday Judy needed to cheer me up because I’m grumpy. She showed me a video of a nonspeaking man wearing a device on his head that could read his brainwaves and then speak for him. It did cheer me up a bit. The cool thing about technology is that it just gets better. I genuinely believe that in the not very distant future there will be some kind of technology to help us. Maybe it will just read our minds so we can just type on a computer. Maybe someday soon spelling will be outdated.

But don’t worry…Judy will never retire.

The Cognixion Axon-R Headset

]]><![CDATA[The Best Night of the Year]]>Mon, 07 Apr 2025 17:04:06 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/the-best-night-of-the-yearAll my life I’ve been the disabled younger brother. It really hurt when I’d watch my older brother doing cool things like going to college, getting a job and an apartment. I accomplished nothing until I came to M2H years ago. I am totally proud of what I have accomplished here. I definitely could not have foreseen that coming here would change everything. I can talk, write and learn. That is a miracle. I finally am doing things of which I can be proud. And let me tell you, that feels pretty great.

ME WITH ELIZABETH BONKER!

]]><![CDATA[Nice People]]>Mon, 31 Mar 2025 18:54:06 GMThttps://www.mouthtohandlearning.com/not-otherwise-defined/nice-peopleThere still are some nice people in the world. Every time we are on our way home from M2H we stop by Wendy’s. The manager always gives me my meal for free. At our candy shop they basically give me candy for free. And at a lot of restaurants, the staffs are super nice. Then of course there are the people at Mouth to Hand. No one is nicer than them, because they honestly don’t feel that nonspeakers are any less than speakers.

There are others I could mention, but the point is that there are still genuinely kind people in the world. I wish that everyone acted that way. The thing is, people don’t. Those that don’t are not the kinds of people who want we nonspeakers to be cognitively normal. I can’t say I understand what their beef is, but they want to be right no matter the cost.

Getting back to the nice people, though: it’s wonderful to be with them. That is why the best day of the week is M2H Mondays.

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